The Dos and Don'ts of Gender Reveal Parties

It seems the etiquette of these parties for both the mama-to-be and the guests is still a work in progress. Here are the do’s and don’ts that I would recommend if you are expecting: 

Do provide food for guest. Nothing major, but if you invite people over during a meal time or for an extended period of time it is good manners to feed them.  

Don’t expect the guests to provide the food for ya. Unless they offer… or make amazing piggy in a blankets, or punch. Then it’s totally appropriate, and yes I am tooting my own horn. 

Do play so games to engage the guests before the big reveal.

Don’t play so many games people leave before the big reveal.

Do request that guests were pink for blue to guess the gender.

Don’t expect everyone to do so. Having “It’s a girl” or “It’s a boy” stickers for those who forget the dress code is a great solution.

Do have some pink and blue décor. Blue and Pink Punch, Desserts, and serving platters are an easy way to incorporate the theme.

Don’t tell people! I know that y’all might want to know before the grand reveal, so plan accordingly. If you can’t keep secrets plan the party as soon as you find out.

Do invite close friends and family.

Don’t invite Every. Single. Person. You know. Your co-workers grandma’s boyfriend can find out on facebook… and that’s okay.

Do have favors. Your friends are going to throw you an amaze baby shower. A simple bag of candy for your guests is a great way of showing your appreciation for their participation in this big day. Think of it as the rehearsal dinner of having a baby. 

Well, there you have it. A single gals opinion on a party I have never thrown. I never claimed to be an expert on these things y'all, but I do hope this helps! 

XOXO, 

Elle